Thursday, January 17, 2008

I got it.

I finally got it! I am a little reluctant to share this but it made me so happy, I want to document it here.

Yesterday afternoon, over pink playdough,


I got my first unsolicited "I love you" from my child. We were building a snowman (a dough man, really) and his bed, and blanket, and table, and light and out of the blue, with no prompting or asking (which I admit, I sometimes do) , Ava said, "I love you, Mom."



It took 2 and a half years but the words felt just as sweet as I'd hoped.

3 comments:

havingcakeandeatingit2 said...

Yippeee! Hoo Haaa! You're the MOMMA! Did ya do a little dance? I love you!I don't think I ever kept track. I'm not sure my ego could have handled it.

dishes and laundry said...

That is the BEST!!!

Does Ava know just how happy that made you?

Don't feel bad about asking - I do it all the time! LOL

And on the playdough...yours looks pretty bright pink. Did you use food coloring or the Kool-Aid packet? I used food coloring for years and years and then someone told me about the Kool-Aid. Not only does it give the most vibrant colors, it smells wonderful!!!!

Elise said...

Wendy, I forgot about this...Dan made that playdough for Ava and he used food coloring. I have never heard about using the kool aid packets. That is a great idea! Thanks! And yes, Ava knows how happy it made me cause about 5 minutes later, she started acting up and I said, "Ava," in the mad mommy tone and she looked up and said, "I love you, Mom". She is the master or manipulation!